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Birthday Parties

The tradition of birthday parties started in Europe a long time ago. It was feared that evil spirits were particularly attracted to people on their birthdays. To protect them from harm, friends and family would come to be with the birthday person and bring good thoughts and wishes. Giving gifts brought even more good cheer to ward off the evil spirits.



Birthday Traditions

Canada - Greasing the nose with butter or margarine. In Atlantic Canada (Nova Scotia, Prince Edward Island, New Brunswick and Newfoundland) the birthday child is ambushed and their nose is greased for good luck.

China - Noodles for Lunch. The birthday child pays respect to his/her parents and receives a gift of money. Friends and relatives are invited to lunch and noodles are served to wish the birthday child a long life.

England - Fortune Telling Cakes and Bumps. Certain symbolic objects are mixed into the birthday cake as it being prepared. If your piece of cake has a coin in it, then you will be rich.

Ireland - Birthday Bumps. The birthday child is lifted upside down and "bumped" on the floor for good luck.

Italy - Pulling ears. The child's ears are pulled as many times as how old they are turning.

Japan - New Clothes. The birthday child wears entirely new clothes to mark the occasion.

New Zealand - Birthday claps. After the birthday cake is lit, the happy birthday song is sung loudly and often out of tune and then the person birthday person receives a clap for each year they have been alive and then one for good luck.

Philippines - Mixture of East and West. Birthday cakes are baked in various sizes and shapes.

United States - Cake, candles and song. A cake is made, and candles are put on top based on how old the person is.



Some Birthday FAQ

Do I have to invite everyone in my child's list?
No. But you should try to be discreet about it. Assemble the guest list with your child; she'll have a good idea of whom to invite.

I am told that I "should" invite more kids than I can handle at the party. What should I do?
Plan a playdate or outing at another time with different groups of kids. For example, if your first-grader has friends from school and a soccer team, plus a few cousins, limit the party to the school friends and family, then plan an outing to a pizza parlor or sporting event with the team for a separate day.

Can I call people who don't RSVP to find out if they're coming?
Absolutely. Don't let others' bad manners spoil your party.

How do I make sure my child is gracious to the guests?
Start by setting the tone when you begin to plan the party. If you emphasize the importance of guest enjoyment from the beginning, your child will be more likely to recognize her role as host.

Are thank-you notes necessary?
Absolutely. It teaches responsibility, politeness, and consideration for others, as well as gives your child an excellent writing and creativity exercise.

I'm accompanying my child to a party. What should I do when I'm there?
Let the host set the tone. Offer to help, but if she says no, leave her alone. If she doesn't give you specific directions, act as a helpful ? yet unobtrusive ? chaperone.



How to Say Happy Birthday in Any Language

Albanian - Urime ditelindjen!
Bengali (Bangladesh/India) - Shuvo Jonmodin!
Bicol (Philippines) - Maogmang Pagkamundag!
Chinese-Cantonese - Sun Yat Fai Lok!
Chinese Fuzhou - San Ni Kuai Lo!
Chinese-Mandarin - qu ni sheng er kuai le
Croatian - Sretan Rodendan!
Czech - Vsechno nejlepsi k Tvym narozeninam!!
Danish - Tillykke med fodselsdagen!
English - Happy Birthday!
French (Canada) - Bonne Fete!
Italian - Buon Compleanno!
Pinoy (Philippines) - Maligayang kaarawan sa iyo!
Spanish - Feliz Cumplea?os!
Turkish - Dogum gunun kutlu olsun!
Ukrainian - Mnohiya lita! or Z dnem narodjennia!
Zulu (South Afican) - Ilanga elimndandi kuwe!



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Create party magic

Birthdays are exciting times for kids of all ages. Get your children involved in the planning of their own parties with these suggestions from Crayola:

  • Guests know they've arrived when you decorate your sidewalk or driveway with sidewalk paints or chalk.
  • Children can create their own colorful centerpieces and placemats following their party theme.
  • Plan an engaging mix of active games and creative activities, including traditional favorites like 'Pin the Tail on the Donkey', or provide some art supplies and encourage children to express themselves.
Additional party suggestions can be found at Crayola or call toll-free, 1-800-CRAYOLA (272-9652).



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